Episode 353 – First Impressions

Co-Host Kimmy Seltzer

Co-Host: Kimmy Seltzer - Charisma Quotient

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My returning guest is a style consultant and a dating strategist, so who better to join me for this long-overdue show about how to make a brilliant first impression? Well, it might surprise you, but Kimmy Seltzer hasn’t always been the queen of style. In fact, like many of us, she went through a devastating breakup that sent her into the doldrums. It was only after what I jokingly renamed her ‘moment of redress’ that she realized how far just a little bit of self love could go.

Nowadays, of course, she’s all about empowering others to make a big splash when meeting others. Kimmy explains how she went from thinking ‘inside out’ as a therapist to giving due credit to working from the ‘outside in’ as well.

Is it really so bad to compare a good first impression to product marketing? What is ‘enclothed cognition’…and is it anything like ‘costumed confidence’?

What’s the one thing you can do that’s not only fall-out-of-bed easy, but actually FUN to make your first impression better? How do you maximize your first impression online when you have mere milliseconds to make it happen?

It used to be women would go shopping in curlers…but now it’s actually worse! And hey, why is it that we STILL notice the frumpy ones anyway? Is the joke on us?

As a special bonus, listen in as Kimmy somewhat inadvertently reveals what’s really going on in many women’s heads when most of us as guys think women are repulsed by us (hint: Oh no, it’s most certainly NOT your fault. In fact, it’s not even YOU).

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