Episode 400 – Why Women Get Addicted To A Man

Co-Host: Zan Perrion - Ars Amorata

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For this milestone 400th episode of The Mountain Top Podcast, I’m joined by my long-time friend, returning guest and Alabaster Girl author Zan Perrion from Ars Amorata. The inspiration for the topic of this show was a post in Zan’s own Facebook group about so-called ‘alpha widows’.

An ‘alpha widow’ is a woman who becomes completely addicted to a certain man, and when that guy is out of her life she is unable to find another who measures up in her estimation. It’s a fascinating enough concept that it has been on my radar screen for well over a year now. About a dozen other dating experts wouldn’t touch it, so it came down to Zan himself to help break it down.

So kick things off, what in the world is it that a man does to ‘alpha widow’ a woman? What, if anything can we do if we encounter one and would love to make her forget Whatshisname? And wait…why can’t WE become the one who is creating such ‘alpha widows’ ourselves from now on instead of dealing with the ones other dudes have created?

Is that even something we’d WANT to do? Is it even ethical? And how do we even know when we’ve created one?

Should we start ‘charm throttling’ on first dates if this becomes a pattern? What if a woman has become sexually ‘addicted’ to another man?

And finally what if a woman ‘alpha widowers’ US? If it happens, how did she do that? And once she disappears, does she have to remain ‘the one who got away’ forever, or can we get over her?

Thank you to ALL of you gentlemen for supporting this show for 400 episodes over the course of the last 17 years. I appreciate each and every one of you greatly.

 

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