Co-Host: Sandra Myers - Select Date Society
Podcast: Play in new window | Download
My first-time guest Sandra Myers is a matchmaker who heads up Select Date Society. In this fast-paced and often funny episode, we talk about how (and when) men and women tend to blow it in the first three months of dating each other.
To kick things off, Sandra throws down how WAY too many people mess up within the first three MINUTES, or on the first date. Here’s a hint: How many people do you know who love biographies?
What are some other ways we as men all tend to sabotage any chances with a woman early on? Why does living in the past even in a present relationship have such damaging consequences?
How does a “dry spell” over the past several months affect our mindset when getting into a new relationship? What’s the trap that couples fall into on or shortly after the first date that instantly creates a bad habit that could doom the relationship later?
What’s the right level of “being mysterious” early on? I mean, where’s the proper balance between oversharing and not sharing enough to make a connection?
Is there a good reason to “test jealousy”…and if so, what does it look like? Where do we as men often sabotage any chance of real communication with a woman?
© 2005-2026 -- All Rights Reserved Worldwide.
