Co-Host: Jonathan Van Viegen - Chosen And Cherished Method
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My first time guest Jonathan Van Viegen is a couples therapist and coach, and author of The Chosen And Cherished Method along with his new book Choosing Us.
The topic he suggested is one that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough in the world of dating and relationship advice, especially amongst us men. That’s being likable.
Now, it seems simple and obvious how important this is to attracting women and building relationships with them, so why is it so often overlooked? What’s the best path to becoming a better man that’s actually going to lead to women liking you more? (Hint: it’s not always so obvious.)
Jonathan admits he didn’t used to be very likable to his wife. How exactly did he turn that ship around?
What’s the difference between a woman being attracted to you and actually liking you? Is the mental image many men have of “masculinity” actually likable? Here’s how and why those two traits don’t have to be mutually exclusive.
What’s one simple habit that makes you more likable immediately, especially to women? Is there a likable way to earn respect? What is the skill many people have lost since COVID that makes them far harder to like?
It has been said that attraction isn’t a choice. Is liking someone a choice? What’s the hard truth about likability that everyone should learn…especially if they want to stand out in a crowd?
On the other hand, why are needy people pleasers so unlikable? And finally, what’s the one question men should write down and ask themselves over and over.
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