Episode 365 – Are You Kinkier Than You Think?

Co-Host: Dana Shergill - The Partition

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My guest refers to herself as a ‘kinky wellness coach’, and she’s quite sure most of us as humans are a lot naughtier, sexier and yes–even kinkier–than we give ourselves credit for, let alone admit. So with that in mind, you can already guess that Dana Shergill is outspoken, unashamed and downright unoffendable. And that combination always makes for a great show, especially when we’re welcoming a female guest.

So on with it, then…what does a kinky wellness coach actually do for a living? What does Dana mean when she says kinkiness is an outlet for aggression, imagination and attention? Why is that so important? And wait a minute…isn’t ‘aggression’ a dangerous term to use when applied to men and sexuality?

Meanwhile, when it comes to sex, does any flavor other than vanilla classify as ‘kinky’? And can it possibly true that women are every bit as naughty and potentially kinky as men are? If so, what’s holding them back from expressing it?

Pornography aside, what can pop culture in general add to our kinkiness? For example, what do the books, movies and music women consume say about what’s really going on inside their heads sexually?

In fact, could it be true that women are sending us signals that they’re sexual–and even kinkier than we realize–without us ever picking up on that? What are some examples of ways more people than we think are just as ‘kinky’ as we are?

How about bondage, heightened sensual experience, risk of getting caught, or threesomes (and moresomes)? What is BDSM and why is it not necessarily as intimidating as people thing it is? And in keeping with the theme of other recent episodes, could it be that kinkier, more ‘adventurous’ sex makes us feel more alive?

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