Episode 475 – Resentment Wreckage: The Silent Assassin of Masculinity

Co-Host: Frank Kermit - Frank Talks

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He’s Frank because he has to be. After years and years, I finally have my long-time friend Frank Kermit back on the show. He has always been about straight talk when it comes to women, men, sex, dating and relationships…which is probably why he and I made friends immediately and that friendship has endured.

In this long-overdue episode, we talk about the strange rise in bitter, hurt, resentful people–both men and women–and how so many of us got this way. Resentment is the quiet poison that eats men alive. It wrecks your masculine presence, makes you unattractive to women, and slowly destroys your edge in life.

Naturally, we kick off the conversation with a searing discourse on self-imposed limiting beliefs, and how the media actually reinforces them. And then, what’s up with all those long checklists women schlep with them on dates? And on the other hand, why is it that the less success with women a guy has had, the “pickier” he might become?

And what’s up really going on when we play “Whack-A-Mole” with one excuse after another for not succeeding with women, to the point where we just get angry rather than actually doing something about it? Why is it so true that ‘hurt people hurt people’? And what if ‘Mr. Nice Guy’ really has something pent up under the surface?

As it turns out, getting over any resentment that’s built up within us–especially toward our family and women–has to come from a place of genuine desire, not to mention raw, masculine courage. Does that mean actually confronting those who have hurt you? That’s for you to decide.

If you’ve been into men’s dating and relationship stuff for years, you might wonder why you haven’t heard from Frank in a few years. Well, as it turns on he was on one hell of a personal journey…losing 260 pounds (!) You’ll get the lowdown on that as well.

Frank’s weight loss journey and GoFundMe: https://www.franktalks.com/obese-recovery.html

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