Episode 404 – The Bad Sex Survival Guide

Co-Host Cyndi Olin

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Well, since this is episode 404, I figured we’d talk about something all of us would like to delete and make disappear. And even though Woody Allen infamously believes otherwise, that’s BAD sex.

Indeed, not all sex is GOOD sex simply because it happened. I brought along none other than my long-time friend and colleague Cyndi Olin to throw this ugly topic on the table in all it’s lack of glory.

As you probably have guessed by now, Cyndi and I have a certifiably weird relationship when it comes to talking about this stuff, so it starts off fun and hilarious and stays that way. For starters, we cover the obvious factors that lead to bad sex, punctuated by some humor. But then Cyndi talks about how women time their sexual encounters with a man, whether we realize it or not.

And what, other than the obvious, might be going on when two people never call each other again after sex? How does misplaced disappointment and self-blame ruin otherwise perfectly good sex? I mean, how is it we blame ourselves for each others lack of sexual skill and/or performance? It’s weird.

And what about our sexual priorities? How do selfish people end up having bad sex? And how does our level of understanding regarding the opposite sex’s view of sex enter into all of this?

Do women ever use men for sex? What should you do if she gets naked and you’re disappointed? Does porn make real sex worse?

Does holding off on having sex for the first time really make it better when it finally happens? Is ‘tender lovemaking’ synonymous with good sex (or is that a rhetorical question?) And of course…how can you (and your partner) recover if you’ve indeed endured bad sex?

 

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