Episode 456 – How To Breakup-Proof Yourself

Co-Host: Lucia - The Art Of Love

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  Remember those old pickup artist ads that used to promise getting you ’10s…who are reserved for rock stars’? Well, my new friend Lucia is a dating expert who has indeed worked with rock stars and other celebrities…as have I. However, of particular interest there is that she specializes in breakups and getting exes back. So what do you know? Everyone who dates gets broken up with, even rock stars. So there’s no shame in that, after all.   But what if you could dramatically increase your odds of NOT getting broken up with? That sounded like a great topic to me, and Lucia brought a great discussion to the show.   So then, what are the first steps to ‘breakup proofing’ yourself? I mean, being the kind of man women want to keep around forever would be a great start, right? For womens’ part, I’ve met my fair share for sweet, sane, beautiful women who actually like men…none of whom have ever met a so-called ‘commitment phobe’.   But according to Lucia, most married couples she knows went through at least one breakup, and she disagrees with me that couples who split probably do so for good reason and should stay that way. But it seems to me like every old couple I know who has been married for years met as highschool sweethearts and stayed that way. So, what has changed over the years with how men and women date and relate?   What are the TWO WORDS that separate men who get broken up with from men who make women addicted to them? (Hint: You’ve heard me say the same thing.) How do most men blow their chances at making women want them forever before they even leave the house? Do men and women both get ‘triggered’ too easily lately, to the peril of what’s actually a perfectly good relationship? An interesting, important and even entertaining conversation overall.