Co-Host: Dr. Avrum Weiss - Author/Psychologist
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The first time my guest Dr. Avrum Weiss was on, he threw down some enlightening yet challenging ideas about not only HOW we as men tend to be afraid of women, but WHY. This time, he returns to go into more detail about how even those of us who THINK we’re pretty much fearless out there with women are hamstringing ourselves when it comes to success with women.
As his book’s title says, much of this self-sabotage happens in plain sight. What’s more, women themselves also see our fear…and yet typically offer little to no help in letting us see our own proverbial forest for the trees. Why is this all apparently so simple, yet so complicated at the same time?
Well, Avrum starts off by explaining how we as men experience fear of women as opposed to how women perceive it. As much as we associate fear with the attraction process and dating, where does most of it REALLY come from?
Then we explain exactly why so many men attract ‘average’ women without any problem whatsoever…until they’re in front of a woman they’re actually attracted to. And how can subtle fears crater our chances with women…not just in the beginning, but eventually in the context of even a long-term relationship?
What are the real differences between what women SAY they want in a man, and what they REALLY want? And how do OUR fears as men influence both?
Next, if we know being needy and seeking approval is an attraction killer, why do so many men have such a hard time cutting it out? And most of all…what is the most effective antidote for relational fear? Stay tuned for practical steps.
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